Saturday, September 15, 2012

On the Road Again!

Back on the road after a summer of grandkids, weddings in Michigan and Hawaii, camping in 101 degree heat at Lakeport and 90's on the Outer Banks at Camp Hatteras, North Carolina.  

Andy and Cathie had a beautiful outdoor wedding on a balcony at the Casino on Belle Isle.  Jeff and Becky also were married outside to the sound of the ocean waves at Kona by the sea on the Big Island of Hawaii.  So nice to see the love they share and be part of the festivities.

We enjoyed all the time we got to spend with the grandkids in Michigan, Hawaii, and North Carolina.  Had fun swimming and throwing rocks in the water with Griffin and Colton on Lake Huron.  I loved hitting my favorite Hapuna Beach with Willie and Hiku in Hawaii. And we really had fun and great food with Brody and Ella on the Outer Banks.  The Ferry ride was cool, going on the Cape Hatteras Ferry to Ocracoke.  Ella would not let Bapa pull her tooth even though he tried bribing her with a bonus $5.  

After we left North Carolina, we headed up the East Coast into Virginia.  Spent a night at the First Landing State Park and visited the Edgar Casey Foundation in Virginia Beach.  He was able to diagnose and heal people telepathically and all his readings are recorded in a huge library there.  He was ahead of his time using alternative therapies to heal.  Then we headed to New Jersey to visit my old favorite childhood beach at Avalon, New Jersey.  Also had a chance to have dinner with my cousin Russ and his son Shawn.  So good to see him after almost 40 years.  Stayed 2 nights at DiMatteo Winery in New Jersey.  Then on to Pennsylvania to visit Aunt Rene who is 91.  She just moved out of her house into a very nice apartment in a senior center.  Stayed at Wycombe Winery near Ambler, PA.  Learned a lot about wine making, loved their wine and brought some home to share.  They had a delicious dandelion wine made from the yellow flower petals.   So glad we joined Harvest Hosts so we can stay at farms and wineries when we are on the road instead of Walmart parking lots.  Much prettier, quieter and more fun meeting the owners and sampling the wine!  

Back in Davisburg, Mickey helped Patrick reroof the pole barn this spring.  They just finished an enormous play structure that should keep the boys happy and busy till they are in their teens!  Chanda and Pat and the boys are finally settled into the house so we can travel without worrying about grass cutting or snow shoveling!  Yeah!!

Now that all the kids are back in school, we are heading to Edwards, Colorado to visit with Jennifer and Derrick (I will be meeting them soon).  Can't believe Griffin started Kindergarten, Colton is the only one not in school yet!  Brody is in 5th grade, Ella in 1st, Willie in 3rd, Hiku in 1st, Jesse is still homeschooling and just turning 14, and Matthew is a senior.  Wow!!  We are blessed with healthy, happy, beautiful grandkids.

Just got sad news before we left that one of Chanda's close friend's baby girl, Amie, who is almost 2 was diagnosed with a brain tumor and had surgery on Friday.  It is a cancerous tumor so she will have to start chemotherapy in 2 weeks.  She is such a darling child, I cannot believe this is happening.  She was just visiting with her sister and they were all playing on the new play structure last weekend.  Now this!  So we are praying and sending her positive healing thoughts.  And trying to wrap our heads around the crazy, awful things that happen for no good reason! 

So we left Davisburg on Friday afternoon and drove across the state to Indiana.  We tried to camp in a state park near Lake Michigan but it was over an hour wait to see if we could even get in so we left and spent the night in a Walmart Parking lot near Michigan City, Indiana.  Left there this morning and drove over 400 miles to Stuart, Iowa just west of Des Moines.  This afternoon we stopped at Dale Valley Winery and got to enjoy some wine and music.  They had a guitar player with a great voice and delicious wine.  The place is beautiful with the winery in an old school house, rolling hills, and a beautiful sunset.

Mickey is snoozing after a long day of driving.  tomorrow we head thru Iowa on route 80 to Nebraska.  Heading to South Fork Vineyard in Ogallala, NE.  No wine, they just grow the grapes, but it will be a good stopping point after 425 miles on the road.  I hope to do some driving to give Mick a break.  I am usually in a semi comatose state unless there is something on the radio that keeps my interest.  

Today there was a show on NPR about research on the skills that differentiate people who have a GED from those with a high school diploma.  An economist has been researching this for 10 years.  The important differences are called non-cognitive skills or social skills or even personality traits.  They include self-control, self regulation, impulse control and the ability to delay gratification.   Kids in poverty suffer from stress that impacts their brain development and affects these skills.  Studies have shown that attachment parenting especially in early childhood helps the brain develop these traits, but that even in the teen years they can be developed with mentoring or training.  Even a few sessions in middle school or high school can help teach teens better coping skills that will help them stay in school and succeed in college.   The US has a horrible rate of college drop outs.  One of the worst in the world, so this research may help more kids stay in school.  


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